Ignorant people

So, last night, as you all could see, my (thank God) soon to be ex- BIL told my very smart and precious nephew that his new cousin isn't a blood relative and therefore not worthy of having her picture in his house. Out came fuming, mad Mamma.

The reason I was (and am still) so mad is because I was really never expecting Jake to do that to me. I know that is silly on my part, seeing just how he's treated my sister for years, but I had hope there. We will make our own family. It will be fine.

As for other ignorant people, I'm not *quite* as worried... I'm more expectant of that. I half-hoped that it would never happen, but it will. I know it. I've put myself in a unique position, and a happy one for me, and other people don't understand it. That is their stupidity, not mine. She will be MINE, all mine (mine, mine, mine, haha). My daughter. (and, this does not mean i negate her biological parents in any way, but she will be my daughter.)

I am SO thrilled to finally see my daughter's face. I cannot wait to have her here in my arms. And, I do not plan to always refer to her as my adopted daughter. UGH. She is just solely "My Daughter". The act of adoption makes us family... and just as much family as if she were born from my womb.

Peace.

I am FUMING, FUMING mad

** Edited, 'cause I was just too mad last night for you all to see my spewing explatives. (caution, i did leave a few in here)


You know. There are just people in this world who are (words cannot really adequately describe them) - ENORMOUS IDIOTS who shouldn't be allowed to have their own children or to live on their own. They are JUST THAT STUPID and MEAN.

My Brother-in-Law is the KING of these bastards. And I do mean Bastard. (sorry, I don't usually curse here, but I'm FUMING mad!!!)

It isn't bad enough that he has gotten TWO (2) DUI's in the past year.... or the fact that he's been arrested for assaulting several people, or that it is OBVIOUS he's been cheating on my sister... or the fact that he kicked her out with nothing and "PRETENDS" that he doesn't owe her anything (what F-ing planet is he ON, anyway???? ......oh, maybe that's the BEER talking when he refuses to acknowledge her HALF of the marriage!!!! OMG. He is a true drunk-ass bastard. His friends are just as bad, but I'm not going to list them here. They know who they are, and they are pathetic.

So, what has me so mad? I mean, all this stuff has pissed me off for a good 3 months now... but oh, no. Today he had the audacity to tell my nephew "C" that his cousin Mia is NOT A BLOOD RELATIVE and he is NOT ALLOWED TO HAVE HER PICTURE IN THE HOUSE!!!!!!!!!!!! WTF????? I swear I never saw that coming, but it doesn't surprise me, seeing he is the biggest IDIOT on the face of the planet.


I am positive God will take care of his awfulness. I'm just hoping some bad karma comes his way very soon. Forgive me, Lord. People like him, well, they belong in the stone ages. Oh, I forgot. They had ADOPTION back then too.

I swear to God, I'm seeing red, I'm so mad. I have absolutely NO sympathy for STUPID, MEAN people.

Peace.

Swimming...in paperwork

So, I downloaded a couple of forms that my agency sent me today. Yikes, even more paperwork to do! I went to the bank at lunch and had a couple of them notarized. But I've got to go back through everything tonight and make sure I have copies of everything I need, in the correct order (according to the documentation my agency sent). Fun, fun.

Oh, and I have to have positive confirmation from my sister and friend whether they are coming with me or not. It is time to commit. God, I hope one of them (or both would be even better) will go!!! I'm pretty nervous to have to go alone. Not that I wouldn't have my agency support, but I really want my sis and friend to go. This is a big deal. :)

Peace.

That cute little face

I almost didn't want to post until I got another pic of Mia! LOL. But I did get a few things this weekend, that I'm happy to report.

Sis and I went garage-saling this weekend. As always, it was fun and an adventure. We found a super deal on a portable baby bed for her house! It is on wheels and we didn't have any trouble getting it in, at all. Woohoo!! We also found a couple more things for her house... a high chair, potty stool and, for her, an Entertainment center. It was a good day.

I can't wait 'til sis gets her furniture. She's going to really like spending time at her house then. The other thing that we did this weekend was get her lawn mowed. Sheesh, that's a job! But, she was blessed to find a decent lawn mower at a different garage sale, and that was fantastic. Her friend came over (with his lawn mower, too) and we all tag-teamed it.

Anyway, I'll post more info about Mia when I get it. I'm anxious to get more info, of course!!

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Over the moon, I am, over the moon!!